Meet and Greet – Merry Barua
March 24, 2025
So, what was it about March 22, 2025, that made it one of the most unforgettable days of my life? I mean, the entire day was packed with incredible moments, but *this* moment! oh, this moment - deserves its own special place in my heart (and probably in a frame on my wall).
You know how you dream of meeting someone who has been an icon in your field? Someone who has shaped conversations, inspired change, and left you wondering, *How do they do it? How do they get to be so...well, *them?* As Razina so perfectly put it, this was *The Amitabh Bachchan* of the *Disability and Advocacy* world. And me? I was just hoping for a glance, a moment of eye contact, maybe a tiny nugget of wisdom I could absorb through sheer proximity.
And then -BAM! Instead of just a glance, I walked away with a "longggggggggg" hug. Like, not just a "nice to meet you" pat-on-the-back hug, but a full, deep, *I see you, I get you* kind of hug. And I? I shamelessly walked right onto the stage for it.
I could have just burst into tears right then and there. No clue why. But that hug? It felt like she just *knew*. Knew what I was feeling. Knew what I was carrying. Knew how much I needed that exact moment of reassurance. And when I, in true dramatic fashion, ran to stand right behind her for the group photo (non-negotiable, by the way), she didn’t just let me, she held both my hands. That simple gesture screamed: *I’ve got you, Seema.*
And just like that, all my *how-will-I-do-this-alone* worries melted into *just-remember-why-you’re-in-this.* She didn’t have to say a word. She just *held space*—for all my feelings, for all my thoughts, for everything swirling inside me. And maybe that’s what we all need, right? People who will just *be there.* Not to fix, not to change, not to advise—just to *hold space* until we find our own clarity.
Shoutout to the dream team! Razina, who made this happen with the energy of a thousand suns. Anita, the ultimate go-to person. And Chitra, the super-enthu cutlet who booked the tickets while the rest of us were still overthinking. You ladies are pure magic! Muaaah!